Staying in Love When Your Love Drives You Crazy – Karen Ehman
Does your spouse or partner drive you crazy sometimes? Of course, they do! So how do you stay crazy in love when you feel anything but? Our guest, Karen Ehman, New York Times Best Selling author and Proverbs 31 Women speaker, is with us to discuss how to keep the spark burning and make our love last.
Key Takeaways on Staying in Love:
- Marriage is about navigating differences, not finding a perfect partner.
- Seek “spotter” friends who offer honest feedback and support.
- Love is a choice that precedes feelings, not the other way around.
- Your marriage is a powerful message to others, reflecting the love and forgiveness found in Christ.
Her latest book, How to Be Crazy in Love When Your Love Drives You Crazy, gives us insight into staying in love with your spouse through her nearly four decades of marriage to extract some golden wisdom on keeping the flames of love alive.
Our conversation starts with a deep dive into the inspiration behind Karen’s book. She candidly shares that it was born from her own experiences in a marriage that’s seen its fair share of ups and downs over the past 37 years.
Karen shares her upbringing in a divorced home and her father’s eventual redemption. These experiences have given her a unique perspective on marriage, illustrating that sometimes, the most unexpected individuals can transform their lives.
Finding Real Friends in Marriage
We discuss the importance of finding and building authentic friendships within marriage. Couples who are crazy in love have a village around them. Karen describes these friends as “spotters” (like a cheerleader or weight-lifting partner) who provide honest feedback and support as couples navigate the complexities of marriage. She encourages couples to seek out like-hearted friends who genuinely care about their growth and well-being.
As our talk unfolds, we explore choosing love over fleeting feelings. Karen eloquently shares that love isn’t just an emotion but a conscious choice, often leading the way for feelings to follow suit. She recounts personal experiences where choosing to serve her husband rekindled their connection, even when they seemed distant.
Karen also shares a powerful story about a young girl who found her way to Christianity by witnessing authentic love and forgiveness within Karen’s marriage. This story serves as a reminder that our marriages are messages constantly observed by those around us.
Conflict In Marriage Boils Down To:
- Emotional baggage – stuff you hold on to from your past.
- Unmet expectations – assuming your spouse will have traits your parents or siblings have.
- Untrue perceptions – reading into your partner’s actions without communicating about it.
This conversation gives us profound insights into building and nurturing lasting, loving marriages. Love, as we discover, isn’t just about warm and fuzzy feelings; it’s a conscious decision to serve and honor our commitment. Karen’s wisdom and personal stories inspire us to embrace the challenges of marriage, knowing that true love, rooted in faith and unwavering loyalty, can withstand the test of time. Thanks for tuning in, and until next time, remember to keep those relationships real and thriving.
Links Mentioned in This Episode:
Learn More About Karen Ehman and Her Book: How to Be Crazy in Love When Your Love Drives You Crazy
Ep. 101 – How to Love Your Spouse When You Don’t Like Your Spouse
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he spark burning and make our love last.
Key Takeaways:
- Marriage is about navigating differences, not finding a perfect partner.
- Seek “spotter” friends who offer honest feedback and support.
- Love is a choice that precedes feelings, not the other way around.
- Your marriage is a powerful message to others, reflecting the love and forgiveness found in Christ.
Karen’s latest book, How to Be Crazy in Love When Your Love Drives You Crazy, gives us insight through her nearly four decades of marriage to extract some golden wisdom on keeping the flames of love alive.
This conversation gives us profound insights into building and nurturing lasting, loving marriages. Love, as we discover, isn’t just about warm and fuzzy feelings; it’s a conscious decision to serve and honor our commitment. Karen’s wisdom and personal stories inspire us to embrace the challenges of marriage, knowing that true love, rooted in faith and unwavering loyalty, can withstand the test of time. Thanks for tuning in, and until next time, remember to keep those relationships real and thriving.
Catch the full episode for all the ways to be crazy in love!
Links Mentioned in This Episode:
Learn More About Karen Ehman and Her Book: How to Be Crazy in Love When Your Love Drives You Crazy
Ep. 101 – How to Love Your Spouse When You Don’t Like Your Spouse
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