Dealing with a Sexless Marriage?
I came across a startling infographic yesterday about the sexless marriage. I mean, startling. The stats on the graph showed that 1 in 5 marriages are sexless . . . meaning couples are only getting it on one time or less per month. Do you know what one of the GREATEST benefits in marriage is? Guess. It’s not a joint bank account. Not health insurance. It’s not even a shoulder to cry on. It’s sex! Fun, wonderful, adventurous, passionate sex.
Sadly, some couples have allowed a myriad of issues to deny them one of life’s greatest blessings. Unforgiveness, past trauma, embarrassment, not knowing their bodies, feeling unsexy, lack of care, selfishness, etc. are some of the reasons. I’m sure you could list 10 more.
Listen. If you’re married, you need to be heating up the sheets. And often.
Sex is truly God’s gift to every married couple. If you’re struggling in this area or know someone who is (and you would be surprised which couples actually are struggling), watch this video where I share on the dangers of a sexless marriage.
Help for the Sexless Marriage
If you’ve found yourself in trouble . . . meaning you no longer desire your husband or wife, you should act fast. Sometimes the very thing we need to do is the thing we least want to do. I know it might sound brain-dead simple, but the cure to a sexless marriage is . . . have sex!
Be like Nike, and just do it! Swish.
I know what you’re thinking. It’s not that easy, Dana. You don’t know my situation. And you are partly right. I don’t know your exact situation, but look at this obstacle like any other obstacle you’ve faced in life. Nothing worth having comes easy. You know that. Sometimes you have to sike yourself up and just do the doggone thang.
For other couples, you may have other relationship issues and need to talk through your hurts with a licensed professional. But, please, for the love of all things sexy, do not continue in a sexless marriage. You and your spouse deserve more.
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