The way to fix your marriage problems is simpler than you think. Stop focusing on the problems in your marriage and start creating
As I began listening to Mort’s wisdom and following the steps to “fixing my marriage problems” that he outlined in his program, Marriage Fitness, things did begin to change. I became more peaceful, powerful, and purposeful in the decisions I made in my marriage. Years later, after launching the Real Relationship Talk podcast, I knew I had to have Mort on the show.
Why Most Marriage Counseling Doesn’t Work
Mort does not believe the way most counselors provide marriage counseling works. He actually says, “The worst day of the week for many married couples is the day they go to marriage therapy together.” Can you relate? The reason, he says, is because the key to solving
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Married couples need to know that it takes a lot of work to make a marriage work. This shouldn’t be shocking. The best athletes, doctors, and professionals in the world all have coaches and intense training. Why should marriage be any different? If you want to fix your marriage problems and make your marriage last, you must be willing to commit to making new connections and building new habits.
The core problem of every marriage is the same—a lack of connection. So work on that instead.
The Truth About Fixing Your Marriage
The truth about marriage is often painful, and many couples would rather go around in circles rather than being honest about how to fix their marriage. Yet, the key to having a great marriage isn’t in finding the right person (or trying to make your spouse better), but in becoming the right person (bettering yourself).
For more information on Mort Fertel and his marriage fitness program, visit http://marrriagefitness.com.
To work with me as your marriage coach or for info on upcoming events, visit http://danache.com/coaching.
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